How to Avoid Petty Things During Exams

                How to Avoid Petty Things During Exams

Hello readers,
How are you guys? Hope you are super fine. Exams are those stones which help you to jump over the next stair of your life. I wrote the last article on the topic –

that how to make a time table for sure shot success. I hope that you guys read it and following it and if not then start this task now.

Exams are the most expected + non-expected things of our life. Expected because we know that we have to face it in our life any time and Un-expected because sometimes life gives us lemon in the form of surprise test.

 I remember few of school days experiences where my teacher gave us surprise tests and we didn’t know the single word of that topic.
The main thing that I am going to tell you that how to avoid petty things?
                                                                                       What does it mean?
                                                                                        Is it helpful?

Petty things
-   Things which are not important to you or less important to you, you can live your life without them, it doesn’t create any problem in your life and YES you can live a happy life without them.

                                                             I have to ask you some questions before telling you the secret to get maximum marks in your exam.

Question- 1) Do you want to crack the exam?
               2) Do you really want to crack the exam?
             3) Does this exam will make any change in your position in the society, class, family, office, in  front of your friends, or in front of your partner?
             4) Are you ready to do some sacrifices for this exam?

Take a copy and pen.
(I know many of you, who read my previous article thinking now that why Harleen always says that take a copy and pen. hahahhahaha ,because I know that when we write something then it will create a solid impression in our mind.)

·       Understand this basic thing that your exam is very important to you.
·       You are ready for some sacrifices like avoiding friends; avoid YouTube, face book, whatsapp, and various social networking sites.

·       Are you guys are thinking that if we avoid all these then who will give us oxygen, how we can breathe.


1) SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES- Yes, you can live without your facebook, whatsapp account.
You can live a healthy life without uploading your new selfies, and yes GOD will not stop your oxygen supply if you can’t check your un-important messages instantly (in which someone was sending non-sense jokes, or sending some rumors).

2) FRIENDS- We all know that who is our true friend and who is not. A true friend can understand your urgency and can wait for some days; for playing games or watching movies or a trip or outing.

But if someone is constantly fighting you over your time that you are not giving him/ her your time that means that he/she is not your friend. They are just good weather friends.

Leave them before they leave you.


3)  Family- No there is no need to leave your family. Just tell them that you are serious about your studies and you can’t give them a lot of time so please stop giving some un-necessary work to me like; for market;

pass me a glass of water; clean the kitchen etc. I know they will understand.

4) VIDEO GAMES- whenever I call my cousins and asked that what were you doing then the answer pops up- video game.

Yes I know that video game is now become a very important part of your life just like your better half, your love but stop it and take divorce.

5) CONSTANTLY CHECKING YOUR PHONE- Stop doing this. Check it at regular intervals like once per hour or twice per 3 hour.

Every time you touch your phone just make a dot on your notebook. It will help you in boosting up and avoiding your phone checking habit.

6) AVOID UN-NECESSARY CALLS- If we know the caller,

then we definitely know him/her, and of course the valuable information too. So avoid it. And I know you can.

7) AVOID TV- I know that it’s not that much hard for you because our online serials and various apps already made us that we can avoid TV very easily. Then try to avoid TV in your phone.


Last but not the least; this is the most important one. Just start prioritizing your each and every thing.

 Like do you really want to go to this party?

Can’t You  live without this party?

Would this party be messed up without you?

Can’t your friends enjoy without you?

Is picking this call that important that you can leave your study in between?

Is it really that important message/notification that you need to check it right now?




Love yourself; respect yourself because you are the most important person of your life.

Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj

A perfect time-table for sure shot success.

 A perfect time-table for sure shot success.

Dear readers,
                     Everyone wants success, fame, and name. But the main question is that-

 what is success?
How to achieve it?
How it looks like?
How is the taste?
Is this for me?
Am I capable to find it, feel it and taste it.


You can do anything, you can achieve anything. But the main thing is that what you want? Do you really want this?
In my last article I write about How to motivate yourself? Because motivation is the key of success. If you are in depression, you are not active, just doing rest whole day and night that means you are in depression and for getting success you have to be not only active but even super active.

So First and foremost task is that 1) get rid of your laziness.
                                                              2) Fasten your seat belt.
                                                              3) Because you are going for a trip, which 
                                                                  told You that how to achieve anything in a
                                                                  Limited time period. 

SUCCESS-  A very big word and if it attached with any person’s name , it    makes that person very big, wait-wait not from the weight or height but in his/her field.



1)    Positive attitude
2)    Determination
3)    Faith on yourself
4)    Consistency
5)    Perseverance
6)    The most important one- your aim, your passion. (Please take a single aim at a time).
7)    Healthy atmosphere
8)    Healthy diet.


·        Take a copy and a pen.
·        Write down your aim, that you want to achieve (it may be your promotion, your admission in a concerning college, a dream job or want to change your personality.) on the top.
·        Write down your achieving time (1 month, 6 month, next promotion)
·        Write down your achieving tools like-
Ø Coaching institute
Ø A particular teacher
Ø Updated software
Ø Books
Ø Updated syllabus
Ø Ideal sitting place and many more.

·        Divide your 24 hours in sections. Suppose you want to clear bank exam then divide your day mainly in 5 sections- QUANTITATIVE APTITUDE, REASONING ABILITY, CURRENT AFFAIRS, ENGLISH AND COMPUTER.
Divide your syllabus in what to study and what not to study. and also give mock tests which are the real mirror of your hard work. 

·        Now give daily two hours to your particular single subject.
·        Write down your Eating, bathing, every time in this time table.
And at last

·        Write down your favorite quote of any thinker or writer which helps you in achieving your dream and paste it on your wall or in your diary.

Congratulations you are done with your first basic step of your success ladder. But the more important thing is that follow the time table.
Give respect to yourself by following your time table. Because no one pester you or pressurize you for this time table. It was only your choice so give respect to your choice, respect yourself and love yourself.

It’s very easy to make a time table, but very hard to follow it. So here promise me that you will surely follow it.

Please comment below if you like this article and follow my blog. If you have any query please message below, I will reply you within 12 hours.
Love yourself because you are the most important and valuable person of your life. Have a nice day ahead.

Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj.

Stay Motivated

How to motivate yourself when you think that things are not going well or according to you?

Hello readers,
Hope you are doing fine. Recently I met with a friend of mine who was sounding very low. In the starting I didn’t get all these. He was giving very different expressions.

QUESTION - Are you sounding very low, facing weak health, passive mind, not showing much alertness, and irritating behavior, anxiety, general discontent, loss of interest, poor appetite, loss of sleep or the biggest one
Thought Of Suicide.

Are you facing any of these above mentioned symptoms?
If yes, then First and foremost I want to tell you that don’t panic. It’s completely ok if you are feeling above mentioned symptoms.
But yes there is a serious need that you should motivate yourself. To motivate yourself you have to find out those situations which lead you in these circumstances. What happened with you in past or what is going presently that is leading you in this worst case?
Some of the examples are-
1)    Failure in exam
2)    Failure in love
3)    Failure in relationship (any)
4)    Loss of near and dear one
5)    Not getting “me” time
6)    Money crunch
7)    Job problem
8)    Any type of mental or physical abuse
9)    Ambition

I hope that you can familiar your depressing situation from one of the above examples. If yes, then let’s start with some tips through which you can find yourself, the beauty of yourself.
·      Please take a copy and pen. Make a line intersecting equally the page into two parts.
·      Let us suppose that you are feeling problem due to failure in your exam or in your love relationship (in general that are known as breakup) or in your ambition.
·      In the first half of your page writes down why you want that thing, like your boyfriend, or any particular post, or any subject.
·      In the second half write down why you don’t want that.
·      Please take your time. Do this exercise in a room all alone.
·      Early morning is the best time to do this exercise.
·      Try to make at least 5-10 points in each category.
·      Write down each and every thing like if you are feeling family pressure in your goal, e.g.
- You want to be a dancer, but parents are forcing you to be a banker or a teacher.
-You want to study arts in your school but parents are forcing you for taking up medical or at least non-medical side for their so called prestige in the society.
-you want a good healthy relationship with your partner but he is forcing you to get physical with him, or don’t talk with other boys (same applicable over girls also, her over possessive attitude is creating problem in your relationship or money factor.)

·      I hope you guys are done with your points. Now pay attention on each and every word. You got the answer of all your questions.
·      Turn your page and write down a backup plan, like learn dance after school hours, try to change your partner’s attitude, or you can leave him/her. A long discussion with your parents that I want to choose my own career because this about me.

Congratulations you are done with your basic task. Now apply all these things in your real life.
Make a time-table; follow your aim, your passion, and your love because this is about you. You must be important to yourself. You are the most beautiful person of your life that directly means that you must be happy but not by wrong means or wrong doings. If you want your rights then follow your duties and take care of others rights too.

Thank you. Love yourself.
 Hope you like the article. Please do comment if you like this or having any questions, I will reply you within 12 hours.

Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj.




A very good day to all of you. Hope you guyz are doing fine. Many students asked me to write down my interview experiences. I am going write here few of them.
This post is especially of my Syndicate Bank PO PGDBF Exam GD and Interview experience. For any help and query please do comment. I will do reply as soon as possible.
1)      Syndicate PO PGDBF EXAM- Single Phase
2)      Result of written examination
3)      Call Letter For GD and Interview
4)      You are at the venue.
So let us assume that you have already qualified for the final stage.
Ready for the final and the most important process.
         A) Documentation
         B) Group Discussion
         C) Interview
A)     i)  10, 12th mark sheet
ii) Graduation mark sheets semester-wise and Degree
               iii) Caste certificate
               iv) NOC from your company
               v) extra- curricular activities certificate
              vi)  Application form copy
              vii) Interview call letter copy
B) Group Discussion-they will make your group (at least 7-10 persons in one group)
      Topic- i) should there be any retirement age for politicians?
              ii) Is India is ready for cyber attacks?
              iii) Cryptocurrency
              iv)  What you choose corrupt and efficient leader v/s honest and inefficient leader?
             v) Digitalisation  etc.
Rules- i) They will Give you the topic.
            ii) two minutes to write your points.(Provide you pad and pen)
            iii) two min. to each individual to say his/her views
            iv) Open discussion = don’t make it sabji mandi, (paanch ka do , paanch ka do and then one of                                                  your group member will start saying Paanch ka teen.)
Total time taken   15-20 minutes.
          - Mine topic was about politician’s retirement age.  And I was against the retirement age.                       Although 7 out of 9 group member was in favour of the retirement age but I choose different               than others.     
             (Try to say new points, and something different from others.) 
Venue- Sarojini house Delhi


Panel- 6-7 members (with one lady panelist)
               (let’s assume them P1-P6)
P1- Around 55-58 yrs old , smiling face, not much asking
        (Sitting on the right most corner)
P2- retired person, very smiling face, if like the answer then appreciate also, intelligent one.
P3 - 45-50 years old (having high post in syndicate bank) prefer English, not smiling, serious one,              asking dangerous questions, basic of the basic.
P4- (lady)- mid 30s, smiling face, asking about banking, personal things.
P5- Simple, sober, not asking much, paying attention to personality.
P6- Youngest one, asking about introduction and why banking.

I entered the room with a smiling face, wished all the panelists, asked me to sit.

P6- Introduce yourself
P5 – why banking?
P4-  tell me any 5 female name who are entrepreneurs or leading their company.
P3-  Tell me about some government schemes.
P4- Jan dhan yojana and atal pension yojana difference
P1 – Difference between DD and Cheque.
P5 – financial inclusion
P2 – my subject basics, international relations questions, diplomacy, war.
P3 – Impeachment of the CJI , procedure and why?
          And So many questions on banking.
          My interview went around 18-20 minutes.
          They asked me ok, you may leave.
          I Wished them again.
Tips-    i) Always have a smiling face.
                  ii) Good communication skill is must.( Don’t use mix language . use either English or                                                                                                                                                   Hindi)
                  iii) Prepare basics of banking.
                  iv)  Prepare basics of your subject.
                  v) you need a Calm attitude .
                  vi) Carefully listen the questions and then give your answers.

Tips for GD-
1)      Pay attention to your given topic.
2)      Think about it for 20 seconds in both ways –positive and negative
3)      No need to initiate the GD , if you have good points and fully confident then you may initiate.
4)      Be the leader of the group, calm others.
5)      Do not cut the others conversation.
6)      Ask question if you feel so.
7)      Do not look to your judges.
8)      Be yourself, no need to use hi-fi language and give special expressions.

Practice GD and Interview by standing in front of the mirror. Prepare the basic questions like your introduction, why you choose particular bank over others.

Good luck and have a great interview ahead. Stay healthy and love yourself because if you don’t love yourself then who will be.

Originally posted by - Harleen Bhardwaj.
Please do comment if you like it or for any query.


Songs are the best way to sooth your soul and mind, you hear them according to your mood, in happiness they accelerate your joy, in sadness they just make you feel good, you hear the songs word to word , you connect to them, you become a bit philosophical listening to the songs many times. Here below is the list of some of my favorite songs according to the different moods.

Below are the best old sad songs which can make you lost in thoughts:

1. Chand fir Nikla:

Sung By: Lata Mangeshkar
Movie: Paying Guest 1957


Lyrics goes like :

 Chand fir nikla, magar tum naa aaye
Jalaa phir mera dil , Karoon kya mai Haai….

Yeh Raat Kehti Hai Who din gaye tere,
Yeh Jaanta Hai Dil Ki Tum Nahi Mere……

2. Fir se Aiyo Badra Bidesi:

Sung By: Asha Bhosle
Film: Namkeen.

 One of the movies directed by Gulzar.

The lyrics goes like this:

Fir se aiyo badraa bidesi, tere pankhon pe moti jadoongi..
Tujhe mere Kaale Kamli Wale Ki Saun..
Tere Jaane Ki rut Mai Jaanti hoon, Mud ke aane ki reet hai ki nahin….

3. Ek tu Na Mila:  
Sung By : Lata Mangeshka
Movie: Himalaya Ki God Mein

The song was Nominated for the Filmfare award for best lyricist and Best Playback Singer.

Lyrics goes like :

Ek Tu Naa Mila….Saari Duniyaa Mile Bhi to kya hai,
Mera Dil Naa Khilaa ….Saari Bagiya Khile Bhi To kya hai…..
Dharti hu main aur tu hai gagan, hoga kahan tera mera Milan.

4. Mere Dushman Tu Meri:

Sung by Md. Rafi,
Movie: Aaye Din Bahar ke (1966)

This song contains very high level cursing words, no other song I have listened with such hateful, cursing, and burning words, listen to the song first to discover the fact.

The Lyrics goes like :

Mere Dushman Tu meri Dosti Ko Tarse….
Tu phool Bane Patjhad ka tujhmein Bahar naa aaye kabhi,

Meri hi tarah tu tadpe , tujhko karaar naa aaye kabhi.

5. Nilaa Asmaan So Gaya(sad version):

Sung By : Lata Mangeshkar
Movie: SilSila (1981)

The Lyrics goes like:

Nila Aasmaan so gaya…..2
Nila Aasmaan so gaya..Ho
Aasoo’n mein chaand dooba, raat murjhaayee
Zindagi mein door tak faili hai tanhaayee…..
Jo guzre humpe wok am hai,
Tumhare ghum ka mausam hai…
Nila Aasmaan so gaya…..2

Ho yaad ki waadi mein goonje beete afsaane
humsafar jo kal the ab thehre wo begaane,
Mohabbat aaj pyaasi hai
Badi gehri udaasi hai….
Nila Aasmaan so gaya

6. Chhod Gaye Baalam:

Sung By Mukesh, Lata Mangeshkar
Movie : Barsaat(1949)

 Lyrics goes like :

Chhod gaye baalam , mujhe haaye akela chhod gaye,
Tod gaye baalam , mera pyaar bhara dil tod gaye,
chhut gaya baalam haaye saath hamaara chhut gaya….

7. Jo Humnein Daastan Apni Sunaai:

Sung By Lata Mangeshkar
Movie: Woh Kaun Thi ()

Lyrics goes like :

Jo Humnein Daastan Apni Sunaai aap kyun roye,
Tabaahi to hamaare dil pe aayee aap kyun roye,
Hamaara dard-o-gham hai yeh, ise kyun aap sehte hain,
yeh kyun aasoon hmari apki ankhon se behte hain,
ghamon ki aag hamne khud lagaai aap kyun roye.

8. Mujhe Teri Mohabbat Ka sahara:

Sung By Lata Mangeshkar, Md. Rafi
Movie: Aap aaye bahaar Ayee

The lyrics goes like:

Mujhe Teri mohabbat ka sahaara mil gaya hota,
Agar toofan nahin ata kinara mil gaya hota….

9. Bedardi Baalama Tujhko Mera Mann:

Sung By Lata Mangeshkar
Movie: Arzoo (1965)

One of my favorite movies and songs of course, a must watch movie.

The Lyrics goes like:

Bedardi balma Tujhko Mera Mann Yaad Karta hai,
Barasta hai jo aankhon se wo saawan yaad karta hai,
kabhi hum sath gujre jin sajili raahguzaaro se,
fiza ke bhes mein girte hain ab patte chanaro se,
yeh raahein yaad karti hain, ye gulshan yaad karta hai,
bedardi balma Tujhko Mera Mann Yaad Karta hai,

 10. Dono Ne Kiya Tha Pyaar Magar :

Sung By : Md. Rafi
Movie: Mahua(1969)

The lyrics of the song are best and would make you imagine the scene.

The Lyrics goes like:

Dono Ne Kiya Tha Pyaar Magar muhe yaad raha tu bhool gayi, maine tere liye re jag chhoda
tu mujhko chhod chali, tune mujhse kiya tha kabhi wadaa, meri taal pe daudi chali aayegi,
aisa bandhan hai pyaar ka yeh bandhan ise tod ke tu kaise chali jayegi.



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