How to Avoid Petty Things During Exams


                How to Avoid Petty Things During Exams


Hello readers,
                   
How are you guys? Hope you are super fine. Exams are those stones which help you to jump over the next stair of your life. I wrote the last article on the topic –

that how to make a time table for sure shot success. I hope that you guys read it and following it and if not then start this task now.


Exams are the most expected + non-expected things of our life. Expected because we know that we have to face it in our life any time and Un-expected because sometimes life gives us lemon in the form of surprise test.

 I remember few of school days experiences where my teacher gave us surprise tests and we didn’t know the single word of that topic.
              
The main thing that I am going to tell you that how to avoid petty things?
                                                                                       What does it mean?
                                                                                        Is it helpful?


Petty things
-   Things which are not important to you or less important to you, you can live your life without them, it doesn’t create any problem in your life and YES you can live a happy life without them.


LET’S START THE DISCUSSION
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                                                             I have to ask you some questions before telling you the secret to get maximum marks in your exam.


Question- 1) Do you want to crack the exam?
               2) Do you really want to crack the exam?
             3) Does this exam will make any change in your position in the society, class, family, office, in  front of your friends, or in front of your partner?
             4) Are you ready to do some sacrifices for this exam?


                    IF YOUR ANSWER IS YES, THEN YOU ARE AT RIGHT PLACE.
THE SECRET IS-
·      
Take a copy and pen.
(I know many of you, who read my previous article thinking now that why Harleen always says that take a copy and pen. hahahhahaha ,because I know that when we write something then it will create a solid impression in our mind.)



·       Understand this basic thing that your exam is very important to you.
·       You are ready for some sacrifices like avoiding friends; avoid YouTube, face book, whatsapp, and various social networking sites.



·       Are you guys are thinking that if we avoid all these then who will give us oxygen, how we can breathe.


HOW TO STOP PETTY THING, THAT ARE COMING IN YOUR WAY CONSTANTLY.


1) SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES- Yes, you can live without your facebook, whatsapp account.
You can live a healthy life without uploading your new selfies, and yes GOD will not stop your oxygen supply if you can’t check your un-important messages instantly (in which someone was sending non-sense jokes, or sending some rumors).



2) FRIENDS- We all know that who is our true friend and who is not. A true friend can understand your urgency and can wait for some days; for playing games or watching movies or a trip or outing.

But if someone is constantly fighting you over your time that you are not giving him/ her your time that means that he/she is not your friend. They are just good weather friends.

Leave them before they leave you.

 

3)  Family- No there is no need to leave your family. Just tell them that you are serious about your studies and you can’t give them a lot of time so please stop giving some un-necessary work to me like; for market;

pass me a glass of water; clean the kitchen etc. I know they will understand.

4) VIDEO GAMES- whenever I call my cousins and asked that what were you doing then the answer pops up- video game.

Yes I know that video game is now become a very important part of your life just like your better half, your love but stop it and take divorce.



 
5) CONSTANTLY CHECKING YOUR PHONE- Stop doing this. Check it at regular intervals like once per hour or twice per 3 hour.

Every time you touch your phone just make a dot on your notebook. It will help you in boosting up and avoiding your phone checking habit.



6) AVOID UN-NECESSARY CALLS- If we know the caller,

then we definitely know him/her, and of course the valuable information too. So avoid it. And I know you can.



 
7) AVOID TV- I know that it’s not that much hard for you because our online serials and various apps already made us that we can avoid TV very easily. Then try to avoid TV in your phone.


MANTRA- PRIORTISE THINGS

Last but not the least; this is the most important one. Just start prioritizing your each and every thing.

 Like do you really want to go to this party?

Can’t You  live without this party?


Would this party be messed up without you?

Can’t your friends enjoy without you?


Is picking this call that important that you can leave your study in between?


Is it really that important message/notification that you need to check it right now?

IF YOUR ANSWER IS YES OF THE ABOVE ASKED QUESTIONS, THEN I AM SORRY THIS ARTICLE CANT HELP YOU. (EITHER YOU DON’T NEED SUCCESS IN YOUR EXAM OR YOU WANT 10-15 SLAPS FROM YOUR MOTHER.)


HAHAHHA HAHAHA
  


WORK HARD, BECAUSE AS YOU SOW, SO SHALL YOU REAP.



Love yourself; respect yourself because you are the most important person of your life.




Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj





A perfect time-table for sure shot success.


 A perfect time-table for sure shot success.




Dear readers,
                     Everyone wants success, fame, and name. But the main question is that-

 what is success?
How to achieve it?
How it looks like?
How is the taste?
Is this for me?
Am I capable to find it, feel it and taste it.


ANSWER – YES, A big YES.

You can do anything, you can achieve anything. But the main thing is that what you want? Do you really want this?
In my last article I write about How to motivate yourself? Because motivation is the key of success. If you are in depression, you are not active, just doing rest whole day and night that means you are in depression and for getting success you have to be not only active but even super active.

So First and foremost task is that 1) get rid of your laziness.
                                                              2) Fasten your seat belt.
                                                              3) Because you are going for a trip, which 
                                                                  told You that how to achieve anything in a
                                                                  Limited time period. 



                  
SUCCESS-  A very big word and if it attached with any person’s name , it    makes that person very big, wait-wait not from the weight or height but in his/her field.



 

WHAT YOU NEED

1)    Positive attitude
2)    Determination
3)    Faith on yourself
4)    Consistency
5)    Perseverance
6)    The most important one- your aim, your passion. (Please take a single aim at a time).
7)    Healthy atmosphere
8)    Healthy diet.



TIME TABLe

·        Take a copy and a pen.
·        Write down your aim, that you want to achieve (it may be your promotion, your admission in a concerning college, a dream job or want to change your personality.) on the top.
·        Write down your achieving time (1 month, 6 month, next promotion)
·        Write down your achieving tools like-
Ø Coaching institute
Ø A particular teacher
Ø Updated software
Ø Books
Ø Updated syllabus
Ø Ideal sitting place and many more.

·        Divide your 24 hours in sections. Suppose you want to clear bank exam then divide your day mainly in 5 sections- QUANTITATIVE APTITUDE, REASONING ABILITY, CURRENT AFFAIRS, ENGLISH AND COMPUTER.
Divide your syllabus in what to study and what not to study. and also give mock tests which are the real mirror of your hard work. 

·        Now give daily two hours to your particular single subject.
·        Write down your Eating, bathing, every time in this time table.
And at last

·        Write down your favorite quote of any thinker or writer which helps you in achieving your dream and paste it on your wall or in your diary.




Congratulations you are done with your first basic step of your success ladder. But the more important thing is that follow the time table.
Give respect to yourself by following your time table. Because no one pester you or pressurize you for this time table. It was only your choice so give respect to your choice, respect yourself and love yourself.


It’s very easy to make a time table, but very hard to follow it. So here promise me that you will surely follow it.

Please comment below if you like this article and follow my blog. If you have any query please message below, I will reply you within 12 hours.
Love yourself because you are the most important and valuable person of your life. Have a nice day ahead.

Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj.



Stay Motivated


How to motivate yourself when you think that things are not going well or according to you?

Hello readers,
Hope you are doing fine. Recently I met with a friend of mine who was sounding very low. In the starting I didn’t get all these. He was giving very different expressions.


QUESTION - Are you sounding very low, facing weak health, passive mind, not showing much alertness, and irritating behavior, anxiety, general discontent, loss of interest, poor appetite, loss of sleep or the biggest one
Thought Of Suicide.



Are you facing any of these above mentioned symptoms?
If yes, then First and foremost I want to tell you that don’t panic. It’s completely ok if you are feeling above mentioned symptoms.
But yes there is a serious need that you should motivate yourself. To motivate yourself you have to find out those situations which lead you in these circumstances. What happened with you in past or what is going presently that is leading you in this worst case?
Some of the examples are-
1)    Failure in exam
2)    Failure in love
3)    Failure in relationship (any)
4)    Loss of near and dear one
5)    Not getting “me” time
6)    Money crunch
7)    Job problem
8)    Any type of mental or physical abuse
9)    Ambition



I hope that you can familiar your depressing situation from one of the above examples. If yes, then let’s start with some tips through which you can find yourself, the beauty of yourself.
·      Please take a copy and pen. Make a line intersecting equally the page into two parts.
·      Let us suppose that you are feeling problem due to failure in your exam or in your love relationship (in general that are known as breakup) or in your ambition.
·      In the first half of your page writes down why you want that thing, like your boyfriend, or any particular post, or any subject.
·      In the second half write down why you don’t want that.
·      Please take your time. Do this exercise in a room all alone.
·      Early morning is the best time to do this exercise.
·      Try to make at least 5-10 points in each category.
·      Write down each and every thing like if you are feeling family pressure in your goal, e.g.
- You want to be a dancer, but parents are forcing you to be a banker or a teacher.
-You want to study arts in your school but parents are forcing you for taking up medical or at least non-medical side for their so called prestige in the society.
-you want a good healthy relationship with your partner but he is forcing you to get physical with him, or don’t talk with other boys (same applicable over girls also, her over possessive attitude is creating problem in your relationship or money factor.)


·      I hope you guys are done with your points. Now pay attention on each and every word. You got the answer of all your questions.
·      Turn your page and write down a backup plan, like learn dance after school hours, try to change your partner’s attitude, or you can leave him/her. A long discussion with your parents that I want to choose my own career because this about me.


Congratulations you are done with your basic task. Now apply all these things in your real life.
Make a time-table; follow your aim, your passion, and your love because this is about you. You must be important to yourself. You are the most beautiful person of your life that directly means that you must be happy but not by wrong means or wrong doings. If you want your rights then follow your duties and take care of others rights too.


Thank you. Love yourself.
 Hope you like the article. Please do comment if you like this or having any questions, I will reply you within 12 hours.


Originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj.





SYNDICATE, CANARA BANK PO PGDBF GD AND INTERVIEW EXPERIENCE


  
SYNDICATE PO PGDBF
CANARA BANK PO PGDBF

 GD AND INTERVIEW
  

A very good day to all of you. Hope you guyz are doing fine. Many students asked me to write down my interview experiences. I am going write here few of them.
This post is especially of my Syndicate Bank PO PGDBF Exam GD and Interview experience. For any help and query please do comment. I will do reply as soon as possible.
PHASES-
1)      Syndicate PO PGDBF EXAM- Single Phase
2)      Result of written examination
3)      Call Letter For GD and Interview
4)      You are at the venue.
So let us assume that you have already qualified for the final stage.
Ready for the final and the most important process.
            Process
         A) Documentation
         B) Group Discussion
         C) Interview
A)     i)  10, 12th mark sheet
ii) Graduation mark sheets semester-wise and Degree
               iii) Caste certificate
               iv) NOC from your company
               v) extra- curricular activities certificate
              vi)  Application form copy
              vii) Interview call letter copy
                    
                
           
B) Group Discussion-they will make your group (at least 7-10 persons in one group)
      Topic- i) should there be any retirement age for politicians?
              ii) Is India is ready for cyber attacks?
              iii) Cryptocurrency
              iv)  What you choose corrupt and efficient leader v/s honest and inefficient leader?
             v) Digitalisation  etc.
Rules- i) They will Give you the topic.
            ii) two minutes to write your points.(Provide you pad and pen)
            iii) two min. to each individual to say his/her views
            iv) Open discussion = don’t make it sabji mandi, (paanch ka do , paanch ka do and then one of                                                  your group member will start saying Paanch ka teen.)
Total time taken   15-20 minutes.
          - Mine topic was about politician’s retirement age.  And I was against the retirement age.                       Although 7 out of 9 group member was in favour of the retirement age but I choose different               than others.     
             (Try to say new points, and something different from others.) 
     
Venue- Sarojini house Delhi

INTERVIEW-

Panel- 6-7 members (with one lady panelist)
               (let’s assume them P1-P6)
P1- Around 55-58 yrs old , smiling face, not much asking
        (Sitting on the right most corner)
P2- retired person, very smiling face, if like the answer then appreciate also, intelligent one.
P3 - 45-50 years old (having high post in syndicate bank) prefer English, not smiling, serious one,              asking dangerous questions, basic of the basic.
P4- (lady)- mid 30s, smiling face, asking about banking, personal things.
P5- Simple, sober, not asking much, paying attention to personality.
P6- Youngest one, asking about introduction and why banking.

I entered the room with a smiling face, wished all the panelists, asked me to sit.

P6- Introduce yourself
P5 – why banking?
P4-  tell me any 5 female name who are entrepreneurs or leading their company.
P3-  Tell me about some government schemes.
P4- Jan dhan yojana and atal pension yojana difference
P1 – Difference between DD and Cheque.
P5 – financial inclusion
P2 – my subject basics, international relations questions, diplomacy, war.
P3 – Impeachment of the CJI , procedure and why?
          And So many questions on banking.
          My interview went around 18-20 minutes.
          They asked me ok, you may leave.
          I Wished them again.
Tips-    i) Always have a smiling face.
                  ii) Good communication skill is must.( Don’t use mix language . use either English or                                                                                                                                                   Hindi)
                  iii) Prepare basics of banking.
                  iv)  Prepare basics of your subject.
                  v) you need a Calm attitude .
                  vi) Carefully listen the questions and then give your answers.

Tips for GD-
1)      Pay attention to your given topic.
2)      Think about it for 20 seconds in both ways –positive and negative
3)      No need to initiate the GD , if you have good points and fully confident then you may initiate.
4)      Be the leader of the group, calm others.
5)      Do not cut the others conversation.
6)      Ask question if you feel so.
7)      Do not look to your judges.
8)      Be yourself, no need to use hi-fi language and give special expressions.

Practice GD and Interview by standing in front of the mirror. Prepare the basic questions like your introduction, why you choose particular bank over others.

Good luck and have a great interview ahead. Stay healthy and love yourself because if you don’t love yourself then who will be.

Originally posted by - Harleen Bhardwaj.
Please do comment if you like it or for any query.

A CALL

She was on her armchair, lost in thoughts, dreaming about some events, events that were linked to her but   She didn't want to accept them. It was a hot chilly afternoon, no one Was at home, Old songs cassette was playing in her room ,suddenly song changed and started playing - "Jo humne dastan apni sunai, aap kyu roye. Tabaahi to hamare dil par aayi ,aap kyu roye."

she went to the veranda and started counting the rose petals.BUT WHY? It was her confusion. She was not feeling fell maybe in a some kind of depression or not getting herself. ( sometimes it happens with us also...we want something but we don't know what is that something, what to do to get that something.)
                            She returned  back to her room and start watching her laptop.
PHONE RANG. TRING TRING .....TRING TRING..
                           she recognized the number instantly and picked up the phone in the last bell.
A VOICE- HI
HER- yeah hi !

( It was him. Who ? The boy ,who was in her thoughts when she was on her armchair. He was the same boy who was coming in her thoughts repeatedly when she was counting the rose petals)

PIN DROP SILENCE FOR OVER 20 seconds. And then

HIM- why were you not there?
HER - I am sorry , but I had an interview on the same day.
HIM- I was waiting for you. Not only because I wanted you to be there but also to see you with my chilling and angry eyes.
HER- My god, why are you so angry?
HIM - oh ! So you don't know why I am angry. And for your kind information I am not angry. I am just asking you a question.

( SHE STARTED MURMURING. ANGRY YOUNG MAN. EVERY TIME SUNNY DEOL ENTERS INTO HIM WHEN SHE STARTS TALKING TO HIM)

HIM- where are you? Are you listening to me?
HER- yes I am . But I have no answer of your questions.

( HE CUT THE PHONE BY SAYING  THAT SOME OTHER PERSON IS CALLING HIM)


She returned to the arm chair, sat their and started thinking about the whole story. How they met in a wedding party. They became friends. Loved to eat out with each other. Talked daily on the phone.  He proposed her and she said NO .ITS NOT POSSIBLE.

Proposal and denial . Proposal and denial. (Continued nearly about one year)
One day he called her and told that his marriage got fixed. It was urgent because of some family urgency. She said OK. He invited her for his wedding. She said okh I will be there definitely. But she couldn't make it due to two reasons- Her very important exam and her mind, who was not allowing her to make it happen. And at last her mind WON.

HE SAID LAST WORDS TO HER THAT IF SHE WILL NOT COME TO HIS MARRIAGE, NO NEED TO TALK TO HIM ANY MORE.
SHE UNDERSTANDS IT COMPLETELY AND DO THE SAME. SHE WANTED TO WISH HIM ON HIS MARRIAGE BUT SHE JUST SENDS A MESSAGE TO CONGRATULATE HIM FOR HIS MARRIAGE .


(Two months passed)
His cousin and that girl were good friends and this time his cousin invited the girl for her own marriage. But again some important work came in the middle of wedding and she couldn't make it.

( AFTER HIS COUSIN SISTER's MARRIAGE HE CALLED THE GIRL , THE ABOVE COVERSATION OVER THE PHONE WAS ABOUT THAT WEDDING.)

PHONE AGAIN RANG.
SHE IMMIDIATELY PICK UP THE PHONE.

HER- I am so sorry for all the things. And she said the truth. I couldn't make it to your wedding because really I didn't want to. I didn't want to face you. I didn't want to face your relatives who know me. I didn't want to repeat that 3 years conversations ,meetings, dining, fights in front of my eyes again and again. I didn't want to see you in that groom's dress. Though I had a lot to say but I have to stop here.
 HIM- Its okh. But at least you could made a call to me and explaine the situation I never get angry on you.
HER- uuuhhhhhhhhhhh......... cchuupp(silence) .
               ( SUNNY DEOL KA GUSSA)


And then,
What?
BOTH LAUGHED.....HAHA HAHAH HAHAHA. A lot and very loudly.

HER - SO WHERE YOU WENT FOR YOUR HONEYMOON?
                          .( to kha gye ghumne janab, mallika- e-khas k sath)
HIM - WHY SHOULD I TELL YOU?   (Kyu btau)

 ONE MORE ROUND OF LAUGH.
Said bye to each other over phone. And returned to their work.
( BOY - office work, GIRL- studies)


She got the ANSWER of her own Question.


This story is originally posted by Harleen Bhardwaj
If you like the story please do comment.
Thank You
Stay healthy and Love Yourself because you are the most beautiful person you have ever met in your life. 

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